Thursday, July 28, 2016

Review of The Red Cat

I am not often downtown, but I was today. I attended a concert at the Highline Ballroom, so I needed to find someplace to eat nearby. I had plenty of time on my hands. I made the reservation through OpenTable, and I specified that I was in a wheelchair. The staff actually called me to confirm, and to make sure I knew how accessible they were! And they called again today to let me know that they would have the ramp set up ten minutes before my reservation. And did I mind that the bathroom has no grab bars? Who does that? Not many restaurants, I will tell you.

I got there early. Not a problem. You ring the bell for assistance, and someone comes out to help. They keep two portable lifts on hand, because there are two giant steps. The front door was a bit narrow, though. I managed in my manual chair. The bathroom was in a narrow hallway off to the side, next to the bar, behind a painting. They had two individual bathrooms. Again, the doorway was narrow. If my chair was an inch wider, I would have been in trouble. The room itself was wide enough that I could make a complete turn, though why are toilets always so close to the wall? I need elbow room!

The staff could not have been nicer, though. And the food was delicious! Restaurant Week is a bit of a hit-and-miss usually, because it always seems like they are trying to save money with tiny portions and low-quality ingredients. And you always feel rushed. Not so here. The salad was sooo good. I'm still thinking about that roasted lemon vinaigrette. And I had the pan-seared porgie, caught in Montauk, the waiter told me. The dish had so much corn, I was in corn-lovers' heaven! And for dessert, chocolate budino. All I know is, thank god I brought my own chair on wheels.
The porgie, on a bed of mashed potatoes
The chocolate budino-I'll be hyper tonight!

Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Review: The Pregnancy Proposition

The Pregnancy Proposition The Pregnancy Proposition by Andrea Laurence
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Oh, she works with vets? That must be sad, and rewarding at the same time.

That's a good name for a guide dog.

It's amazing how we can take our senses for granted.

A real woman wouldn't see his being blind as a problem.

Your sister should never steal your man. I wouldn't talk to her either, if I was her.

I guess your sense of smell is heightened when you can't see. But dude, don't tell her you could smell her!

I have the same aversion to doctors. It comes from seeing too many of them, one after another.

I want that dessert. Now.

Jenna wasn't worthy, but if you keep feeling sorry for yourself, people won't want to be around you anymore.

Dude. That's depressing. Even I make an effort to go to the city at least once a month. Get out of the house!

Shaved ice sounds great right about now.

I love dolphins.

I like that there isn't a sense of woe-is-me here. He is disabled, yes, but he's found a way to function that works for him. As for women, who's to say they wouldn't have been just as shallow if the accident never happened?

Whoa! Slow your roll, buddy!

Whoop! You go, girl!

That is one fancy necklace.

Travelling is hard for anyone. Being blind? It's so romantic that he went through that for her!

Swoon.

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Tuesday, July 26, 2016

Review: For Better or Worse

For Better or Worse For Better or Worse by Lauren Layne
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Interesting way to get the job you want. Maybe I should try it.

That sounds like a depressing way to live. A different girl every night?

Honey, ask your friends for help! That chick is obviously crazy.

I've had bacon both ways.

Aw, buddy. What kind of person would she be if she made you go home without actually eating all that food you cooked for her?

Helping your new love interest plan your ex's wedding to another man? You're a brave man, Josh.

Her mother should have been taking care of her, not the other way around.

That is the saddest way of choosing a career path I have ever heard.

I like it when they are jokey with each other.

Good trick, Trevor.

He likes her more than he knows.

Damn. I am starting to like Danica.

Don't wait too long to tell Alexis how you feel, Logan.

Now I want mac & cheese. And bacon.

You suck, Danica. And I was just starting to like you.

I'm glad Alexis didn't blame her.

His mom might sound like a helicopter mom to some, but can you blame her?

Omigod! He might be an idiot, and a little slow on the uptake. But when he decides to do something? Dayum.

Hahaha! Who else wants banana bread now?

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Friday, July 22, 2016

Review: Sweet Little Lies

Sweet Little Lies Sweet Little Lies by Jill Shalvis
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I'm FINALLY reading this. I had to wait in line for my library to get a copy.

Don't we all wish we had a wishing fountain.

I like the reference to the movie Cocktail.

I don't drink, either.

I like how Ms. Shalvis sets up future books in the series right away.

Phew. I thought I was the only one who did that, Willa!

Don't be a martyr, Finn.

Now that's the way to get a guy's attention!

She's a medic who hates the sight of blood?

Now I really want to know how she knows Finn. Did she come to San Francisco to meet him?

Good for her, that she doesn't mind Jake's wheelchair or the fact that he lost his legs. I just wish she had better luck with the men she has sex with.

Nice going, Finn.

It doesn't sound like her parents were all that great, either. But at least they weren't physically abusive.

Newsflash, honey. Making a man hide from another man, whom you've slept with, doesn't look good.

Elle is magic. That is all.

I'm with Willa, I prefer paperbacks.

I'm glad she told the truth, finally.

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Thursday, July 21, 2016

Review: The Debutante's Dilemma

The Debutante's Dilemma The Debutante's Dilemma by Donna Lea Simpson
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

How old is Pamela?

Jane's mother sounds horrid.

Ugh, talk about emotional neglect.

Yelling doesn't work when learning to drive a car or ride a horse.

You have to be the one to reach out to your niece, my lord.

Would someone please realize how depressed Jane is, and do something!

Wow! Belinda is one brave young girl.

Poor man! He was whipped so often as to leave scars?

Welcome to puberty, buddy.

Oooh, he only came to the ball for her!

It's a wonder riding sidesaddle didn't give women scoliosis.

You're an idiot, Haven.

Um, Rachel? He gonna assume you want a more physical relationship if you tell a guy that.

Go jump off a bridge, Yarnell.

Yikes, lat year really was a bad year for him.

They are very touchy-feely for "just friends".

Stop butting in where you aren't needed, Rachel. You've raised his suspicions now.

Buy a vowel, Colin! Rachel doesn't want to marry you. Although personally I think the lady doth protest too much.

Jeez, you need a lesson in how to talk to women, Colin.

Andromeda is my home-girl.

You should never feel like you have to change for a particular guy. Just wait for a better one.

Game on, Colin.

Haven is finally being a man. Hallelujah!

Her grandma is hilarious! And wily as hell.

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Tuesday, July 19, 2016

Review: Hard to Fall

Hard to Fall Hard to Fall by Marquita Valentine
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Ugh, I can't stand sluts like Lyla.

I'm not liking his father.

She's geeky. I like it.

Honey, there's nothing wrong with you. Any man would be lucky to have you.

What the heck is electronic hide-and-seek?

Dude. You're such an idiot. Don't drink so much, vacation or not.

Aww. She really goes the extra mile to connect with people. I want to give her such a big hug.

Cassette tape portraits? Sounds hard.

Her date made her pay for his driving? Oh, hell no!

I love our cops.

It sounds like his dad has let his job change him.

What?! And he still doesn't remember it? He needs to die.

Really? Two years? And her mother went with Saylor? Okay...

What was that? Drive-by Meet Your Daughter?

It's always the quiet ones.

He took that better than expected.

She's totally pregnant.

The arson investigator is an idiot.

Press charges, Saylor!

Ooh, what did her mom say to that jerk?

Aw, I wish he stayed a firefighter full-time. Their kids are adorable!

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Monday, July 18, 2016

Ask First!

As you might have guessed, I live in a suburb of New York City, on Long Island. But I go to the city as much as I can, as long as it's not snowing or raining. I prefer to walk as much as I can (yes, I realize I can't actually walk). The buses are helpful for going long distances, but I'm usually in midtown.

I came across this article through one of my Facebook friends, The Disabled Foodie, who is also a wheelchair-bound New Yorker, called "Nine things you should never say to a wheelchair user". https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/jul/18/nine-things-never-say-wheelchair-user

ALL. ARE. TRUE.

1. "Don't run me over"

Because I was trying to stomp on your foot. I have never met you in my life, but I apparently wish you pain. And if you choose to stand still, it's on you, not me, buddy. Except kids. I hate running over kids, because I have a soul.

2. "Do you have a license to drive that thing?"

Nope. Do you have a license to drive your car? And fyi, I'm not four-years-old, so it's not funny.

3. "What happened to you then?"

I don't find this as offensive/idiotic as "Do you sleep in the chair?" Most people are asking because they truly want to know. Or they are asking for their kids. For all they know, I wasn't born disabled. And people do cringe at their own question, which I find funny.

4. "Don't assume we can't read"

Grrrrr. Yes, I can read a menu. I even have a Master's. From Fordham. Don't ask my mom what "she" wants to eat.

5. "Nice to see people like you in a pub/club/the street"

This has personally never happened to me, but really? This has happened to people? Who are "people like you"? Humans?

6. "Well done for getting out and about"

I get it. Tourists are afraid to be in the city alone. Even my aunt. But it can be done. I'm not some great miracle worker for being driven to the train, being helped on and off, and then rolling to my destination. Stop telling me how "brave" I am for leaving my house alone. And no, I don't have an aide, thank you very much.

7. "Is anyone with you? Why are you alone?"

When did I turn into Little Orphan Annie? If I want to go to a concert or a Broadway show, I go. Usually, if no one is with me, it's because no one in my family was interested in the show. That doesn't make me abandoned or unloved. I can eat where I want to eat, when I want to, no one else butting in with their own choices. It's also fun to people-watch. Try it.

8. "Don't try to drive our chairs"

I appreciate it, I really do. You're my savior. I can't stand the people who just walk right past me.But ask first. Don't try to give me a heart attack when my chair suddenly moves. "Look Ma, no hands!" does not apply here. And if you must push me, could you make sure you understand "no" and "stop" first? Let me do the pop-a-wheelies at the curbs. Don't make me scream outside Bergdorf's because you rammed me into the curb, causing me to pitch forward and almost slide out of the chair. Thank God for seat belts!

9. "Come to my religious institution and be cured"

No, I don't need to know Jesus. I know him. And He loves all His children the way they are, remember? I don't need to be "saved" or "cured". I don't need you to pray over me like you're administering Last Rites. Keep your pamphlet, I have somewhere to be!

I encourage my readers to think about all this. Don't talk to us like we're children, or act like we're invisible. Help us when you see us struggling, but make sure we actually need the help. Don't pity me, or make sure I'm not lying and hope for someone to be with me. If something happens to me, it's on me, not you. "Liability" only goes so far, and then comes common sense.

Thursday, July 14, 2016

Paint Nite vs Muse Paintbar

Recently, I started going to Paint Nite. If you haven't been, it's a painting class that occurs at your local bar or restaurant. You go on the Paint Nite website, and depending on your town, you have your pick of paintings. It's $45, but there is a code that you can use all year for $20 off.

A Muse Paintbar recently opened up in Garden City, a half-an-hour drive from me. It's a dedicated painting studio, but they offer small bites and drinks.The first session I attended, they offered one free drink for that class. Because it's a studio, they can offer different classes at the same time. It's open all day, and the instructors are there all day, so you don't feel rushed. At Paint Nite, the instructor is usually in a hurry to leave, because the restaurant wants to use that space. There's only one class every couple of weeks offered at my local place, sometimes once a week. Muse Paintbar charges $35, but they do offer discount codes at certain times of the month. They put up the classes for the next month on the 23rd on every month.

Sounds good, right? As someone in a wheelchair, I can't go to every restaurant offering Paint Nite in my area. That means I miss out on some paintings. Muse is wheelchair accessible, with two unisex bathrooms. The problem, for me, has been seating. Muse has several tables at different heights. People choose to stand a lot. This means that I can't see the instructor, especially when you seat me in the back. That made my first class stressful. There is assigned seating at Paint Nite, too, but you feel more comfortable asking to be seated somewhere else. I did complain to Muse Paintbar, and got a voucher. So A for customer service. Now I know to request a specific seat when making a reservation.

Remember I mentioned Muse is open all day? Well, the second time I went, I took two classes on the same day. The second class started late, which meant I was late for my ride. The instructor was kind enough to actually finish my jars (they don't just teach canvas painting) and bring them out to the bus for me. The one time Able-Ride was on time... I also received another voucher for the trouble it caused.

One of the paintings I did at Muse Paintbar
This is not to say that I prefer Paint Nite, or Muse . I enjoyed both. Muse has the ability to offer longer class sessions with bigger classes, so your painting can be more detailed. I am definitely planning to go again. And they are not global, like Paint Nite. That might change one day.

Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Nail Stamping

I have been hearing a lot recently about nail art and nail stamping. I had doubts. Could I pull it off? Would it work? Would my nails look like they were painted by Picasso blindfolded?

I decided to order a couple of stamping plates from Amazon. I was worried the images would be too big for my small nail, as I had no way of knowing how big the plate was in real life.Plus, every time I watched videos on Youtube or looked at pictures on Google, the people doing the stamping all have long nails. To say nothing of how easy they make it look.

I didn't get any stamping nail polish, and I just bought one small squishy stamper, CICI & SISI brand, which came with a scraper.

Now, how to stamp. The videos all tell you to hold the scraper at a 45-degree angle and scrape away from you. Um, no. The trick is to lay the plate at an angle and scrape up. Make sure you wipe the plate first with remover. Another thing they don't tell you is that you have to "prime" the scraper by running a nail file over it. Trust me, it works.
The heart came out great, but the phrasing took a few tries. I probably need longer nails, too :)
I used MoYou London's Pride & Prejudice-themed plate, with Revlon Tuscan Sun and StripeRite in black.

Monday, July 11, 2016

Review: My Fair Princess

My Fair Princess My Fair Princess by Vanessa Kelly
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The family that kills together, stays together.

I hope getting revenge was worth it.

He's such a Debbie Downer!

She has practical skills, which are better than having skills just to impress a man.

She's a good daughter.

Stratton is openly flirting with another woman in front of his wife, and she doesn't care?

Good for her, and good for him for defending her. Andover deserved that, and more.

He still doesn't know her stepfather was killed by bandits, does he?

I always wondered. What do the servants do all day when the master is living at one of his other houses?

I've never heard of a kissing gate. Cool. You learn something new every day.

Can you feel the sexual tension in the air?

And Stratton had seemed so helpful...

If it had happened now, Pietro would get arrested for statutory rape, and rightly so.

Scunthorpe is probably a smuggler himself.

Such a stupid man. Does he not know women at all?

I bet she would kill for a camcorder to be invented right now.

Now that's a lady who can take care of herself!

Who's Sir Dominic?

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Saturday, July 9, 2016

Review of Outlander Season 2 Episode 13

Caitriona looks good with graying hair. And Claire's a surgeon now. Nice.

Bree's a ball-buster.

"Roger and Bree, sittin' in a tree.."

"That one person.." Poor Roger thinks she must miss Frank, but she's talking about Jamie.

And we're back to the 1700s. And Charlie's still crazy.

Bree and Roger continue the lovefest. At Fort William. Tears.

Love Bree's accent!

The gallows!

Caitriona rocks those glasses. Lallybroch! So sad.

Whoa, Claire. You want to kill a prince?

Haha, Bree! Way to stumble into an innuendo.

Claire's looking at a document that she signed in the past. Weird.

Yikes, hope Roger's not a relative!

Yeah, Bree. She's been to Fort William.

Dougal's not cool with Claire's murder plan. Shocking.

Hey, Gellis. Have you gone through the stones yet?

Creepy wax statue of Charlie.

Dougal and Jamie fight. Dougal goes after poor Jamie's hands.

What the..Did you just help kill Dougal, Claire?

Nice singing voice, Roger!

So Frank Black Jack was a psycho?

Not all his fault, Rupert.

Claire goes to visit the Clan Fraser marker at Culloden. Beautiful.

Trying to explain to your daughter that you traveled in time...

I heart Roger.

Murtagh's not broken up at all by the murder of Dougal. He's all, "Yeah, and?"

Fergus, be safe.

Bree's understandably shocked. But that was a low blow, girlie. Just because she said Jamie was the love of her life? You should have seen him. You wouldn't have blamed your mother.

I wish they could have adopted Fergus.

Geillis sucks in the 1960s, too.

Jamie, why do you want to fight? You could be safe.

The Jamie/Murtagh bromance lives on,

Poor Roger, to be related to crazy Geillis.

Jamie's very knowledgeable about women's cycles. Better than most men now.

See, Brianna? Mama's not so crazy after all, is she?

Wow. That sky is gorgeous!

What a hard thing for Jamie, to send his wife to the "other man".

Because there's always time for sex with Jamie. If she wasn't pregnant before, she sure is now.

Hope you won't be disappointed with another girl, Jamie.

Jamie lived! Yay! But are you sure you can go back to the right time, Claire?

Caitriona's eyes. Wow.

So weird to hear modern music during the credits.



Review: Cookie Therapy

Cookie Therapy Cookie Therapy by Karla Brandenburg
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Why does Mrs. Mead not want to see his father?

Nice bedside manner, Ted. You suck.

Her mother sounds like an idiot.

I think he should sue for custody. If Shannon can't handle it full-time when Trey is two, what happens when he turns into a hormonal teenager?

Great first impression, Audrey. Haha!

Why is her aunt acting so weird?

Boy is she clumsy!

His father slept with his girlfriend? While his own grandson was sleeping in the room? Eww!

A lot of busybodies in this town.

Ewwww. No wonder Aunt Brenda didn't want this guy to be her doctor. He's a creep!

They should re-open the bookstore.

Hallelujah! Finally you grew some balls and told your mother off, girl.

Ooh, nice ring. I like the symbolism of why he chose it.

Crawl back to your hole, Shannon. And take Elizabeth's mother with you.

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Friday, July 8, 2016

Review: Buried Treasures

Buried Treasures Buried Treasures by Mary Manners
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Boy, I would not want to be driving in that storm!

Her husband was killed in a church? Poor thing! No wonder she doesn't want to go.

Such an adorable little girl.

So they are both widowed.

Paul is a good young man.

Now I'm hungry for Italian food.

I like his sneaky approach to fixing her house.

Lemonade from a mix sounds gross.

Poor man. He was caught between a rock and a hard place. He had to do this for his friends. His wife should have understood. The blame for her death lies as much on her shoulders.

I want Paul to paint my room.

Oh, Paul. I want to give you a big hug. Alcoholism is a disease.

It's good to give Paul tasks to keep him busy in a crisis like this.

I like Julianna's idea of heaven.

Girl, you gotta work on your excuses.

Kids bounce back so easily sometimes.

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Wednesday, July 6, 2016

FitBit: Useful or Not?

So today I saw a potential new physical therapist. I wasn't getting enough cardio at my usual place, so I asked him what I could do to change that. He suggested the arm bike, which I've had for years (and I hate it because it overheats and locks up on me).

Then he suggested wheeling as fast as I can and wearing a FitBit watch to see how fast I can go. But don't those cost a lot? And aren't they only for walking and running?

Not the case, it appears. Or at least, it won't be the case soon. Apple has apparently developed a watch for wheelchair users. But is this watch feasible?

According to a recent article, "Instead of standing breaks, people in wheelchairs will be prompted to wheel or spin their chairs around regularly. Apple will also start tracking distance, speed and calories burned during wheelchair use, just as it does for walking or running." http://bigstory.ap.org/article/45481999f2e3401d9ec6238b54825f76/apple-watch-will-soon-track-fitness-wheelchair-users#

Sounds good, right? And then you go on to read that the watch will cost at least 300 dollars. WHAT? Most people in wheelchairs can't find jobs. No matter what the media will tell you, prejudice against the disabled exists. If no one will hire me, and my only income is my disability check, how am I going to afford half a month's pay? Granted, I personally don't live off my check, but what if I did?

Society is already telling us that as disabled people we just just stay at home and age. If you want to not get fat as well, you should buy an expensive watch to prompt you into exercising. That, or join a gym, which takes care of that pesky disability check burning a hole in your pocket.

And hey, now that you can't afford to eat, you'll lose the weight even quicker.

Review: Dangerous Protector

Dangerous Protector Dangerous Protector by Katie Reus
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I didn't think I'd be good at painting, but it's fun to challenge myself. It's harder than it looks!

Well that came out of nowhere. Poor car.

Flirting and car bombs just go together. Not. Haha!

Whoever planned the bombing did so for maximum impact. Kids could have been hurt or killed!

Cute kid. He's smart, too. His grandma clearly loves him a lot.

Well the cops sure messed up.

Wow. He sure knows how to start an evening out right! Even I'm overheated.

Okay, who the hell is this Gina? Are the cookies poisoned?

Good man. You called her bluff like she needed you to do.

It's not over, you two.

Hubris is a criminal's downfall.

Good doggie.

Dillion, one day you'll understand women. Sort of.

That is the loveliest idea for an engagement ring I ever heard.

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Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Release Day Blitz: LIVE WIRE by Cristin Harber

ABOUT LIVE WIRE

Where Are They Now? on iBooks!

Titan Group is expanding! New recruits mean Jared Westin has potential new hires

to scrutinize. What he didn’t expect was his very pregnant wife Sugar to finagle her

way onto the surveillance team as the prospects were assessed.

Her involvement in the simple observation goes dangerously wrong. She and best

friend Lexi Black stumble into a problem with Russian mobsters. Sugar is forced to

draw on her old ATF tricks, but weeks from her due date, she has no choice but to

team up with Bishop O’Kane, a potential-new recruit and Parker Black, Lexi’s hacker

husband, who must go undercover.

This is special ops novella is packed with high-stakes crime and intrigue, a baby

story for Boss Man, and two steamy romances for two of Titan’s favorite couples!

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Cristin Harber is a New York Times and USA Today bestselling romance author. She

writes sexy, steamy romantic suspense and military romance. Readers voted her

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